Is findom something worthy of exploring? NSFW question!
(Yes this is a throwaway acc. I just made it because I don’t really want this question on my normal account!)
Before I say anything, I’m not here to be judged. And maybe this isn’t the place to ask, but I don’t really know where else to try 😂
So, I’ve been seeing a lot about findom and it’s peaked my curiosity. What does being a “Domme” really entail. I’ve dabbled a bit in sending pics in exchange for money (not nudes but like pics in underwear). Maybe my last arrangement fell somewhere in the lines of findom, selfies and teasing in exchange for gift cards and cashapps.
I just want to ask about what would necessarily be expected of me if I was to join the community. This may be a silly question but a lot of my research has given me different answers and I’d like to hear about other people’s experiences.
Posted Jan 30, 2026, 5:18 AM UTC