My situationship (20m) doesn’t want to FaceTime me (19f)

Okay so I never really post on here, but I need help. I recently started talking to this guy who I’m absolutely crazy about. He matches everything I look for in a guy, but he’s long distance. It’s only about 3 hours so it’s not too bad (I’ve dated farther). The problem is, he never wants to FaceTime. We call all the time. Like voice to voice. However, we have yet to FaceTime. Now, we both really like each other and have a lot in common. It’s just beginning to get really frustrating when I ask him to FaceTime him and he just says he can’t. It’s always some excuse. I mean, I know what he looks like. I met him on a dating app and we snap all the time. It’s just really frustrating to build a relationship without a FaceTime, yk? I think I’m maybe being a bit dramatic but Idk. Have any of you guys had this happen? Like have any of you had long distance but waited to FaceTime? I just want to know I’m not alone because I really freaking like this guy.

Posted Jan 30, 2026, 5:19 AM UTC

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