I think my bf is too attached to me.

I feel like my bf is super clingy. I, myself is a generally affectionate person but I do tend to need some ME time as well. He has friends but he'd rather spend time with me or stay on call with me. I on the other hand prefers equal distribution of everything though a little more priority to my bf. When i ask him to do other stuff he's passionate about he says "I make him happy and that he loves me so much". He likes staying on call with me for hours. I love spending time with him, he's adorable and also I know it's good that he genuinely loves me. But I want him to be interested in other stuff as well.

When we started out it was obvious that both of us would be curious about this new person and would be willing to move mountains, hell, even put other important stuff on hold just to be with eachother. But too much of that would cause an imbalance. I want love and but I don't want their whole life to revolve around me. I am a person full of interests and passion. I wish he was the same.

And No, I'm not avoidant and i don't wanna throw away our beautiful memories with a split over this one. But i really wish I could make him understand