Update: NACHO and feeling infantilized

I appreciate everyone’s feedback on how to handle total NACHOing for mealtime. In this case, the fates intervened. After my post this past weekend, my doctor put me on a fairly restrictive low-histamine diet to see if it could help some health issues I’m having. Talked with my SO about it and decided I’m just going to shop for, cook, and clean up my own meals while he takes care of the rest. We’ll still eat together. Three days in and it seems to be working well. The kitchen is a disaster but… that’s not my problem. I think I just needed to feel more control over my own time and life.

Anyhoo, wish me luck!