[USA] #nyc area - 43 - sissy looking for daddy figure for ltr
I'm a 43 year old queer, borderline ace, single male crossdresser/sissy living in southern Westchester, New York. I'm 5'4, about 170lbs.
I'm looking first and foremost for a friend. It's really important that we have some common interests and can talk and do fun activities together. If there's no friendship, nothing else is going to happen.
I am seeking a daddy type male who will encourage my feminine side. I would love to try going out in public dressed. It will be a bit scary for me but if we start slowly then I can build some confidence. You must be willing to take things extremely slow and within my comfort zone. I'm not at all into aggressive guys though I am a sub/bottom. Although I may be somewhat asexual, I enjoy intimacy (kissing/cuddling) and giving acts of service.
I don't have any requirements for race or looks, as long as you don't smoke cigarettes, are hygienic and not morbidly obese. My age preference is probably 40-55 or so. If you are outside that, I won't rule it out, but I will be very skeptical that we have enough in common to develop anything. I prefer if you live alone and could have me over occasionally at your place. Please live within 50 miles or so of NYC and relatively reachable by public transportation.
This is a posting for friends/dating initially, not a hookup or f-buddy. If you send me anything nsfw, I simply won't respond. If you don't make a a reasonable effort to introduce yourself, I won't respond.
No cheaters. No "DL."
Posted Jan 31, 2026, 1:18 PM UTC