43 [M4F] #nyc area - submissive male with feminine side seeks female led relationship
I'm 43 years old, professional, cultured, somewhat intelligent and kind. However, I'm not a very "manly" guy. I'm short, 5'4. A little chubby but working on it. I have a higher pitched voice, often mistaken for a woman on the phone, and I like to dress as a woman sometimes. I've also been intimate with guys before. Though I consider myself "queer" I am really only attracted to women and would love to find a woman for a long term female led relationship who appreciates my submissive, feminine characteristics. Tomboys and slightly "butch" women are great but I have no strict preferences. The only things I probably can't deal with are smokers (420 is ok) and women who really like large dogs. I'm poly (cuckolding) and kink friendly, but it's not required, as long as you actively take a dominant role with me.
In my normal life, I'm into music and performing arts, especially classical and opera. I also enjoy traveling and exploring the area. I'm also trying to learn golf, but it's a very slow process.
Even if you aren't sure about a relationship, please feel free to reach out to say hi I'm always looking for new friends.
Posted Jan 31, 2026, 1:23 PM UTC