Second FET failed!! Now what?
I'm 29, history of endo, adeno, DOR, Lap in 2024 and hysteroscopy in Sept 2025. Using donor egg embryos. First single 4AA failed. I just tested negative at 11 dp5 day transfer of two 4AA embryos. I feel numb.
I had taken a break from work after first failed FET thinking the stress was causing my physical and mental health to suffer. I had improved my diet drastically. Took supplements. Ate good and nourishing food. Did Yoga. Did breath work. Did meditation. Do affirmations and visualisation. Tried to manifest. I have my beta on Monday but I know I'm out. We'll have to find another donor. I've read about ERA, Endometritis, embryo glue etc which I'll advocate for during my next appointment.
Also I've had an irritated and sometimes itchy vagina this cycle. Haven't talked to my Doc about it. Chatgpt says it won't interfere with implantation.
If someone else who has been in the same boat and did something else please suggest. I'm also thinking of going on a relaxing vacation abroad to get my mind off things. But the only question that haunts me is why? After all that why did it fall?
Posted Jan 31, 2026, 1:23 PM UTC