23M First time seeing an esc*rt tomorrow – have a few genuine questions, would appreciate advice

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Hi everyone,

I’m visiting an esc*rt for the first time tomorrow and I just want to make sure I’m going in informed and respectful. I’ve tried reading past posts, but I still have a few specific questions and would really appreciate experienced advice.

For context: the girl I’ve booked is a recommendation from a trusted source and is verified.

My questions:

Is kissing generally considered safe (health-wise), or is it something better avoided?

Is receiving a BJ without a condom considered safe, or is protection strongly recommended?

I’ve booked two sessions — would you suggest sticking to two, or is one usually enough for a first timer?

When escorts say “one session,” does that usually mean:

one ejaculation only, or

a fixed time limit where multiple rounds may be possible?

Basically, can a session end immediately after finishing, or is it time-based?

Is it advisable to carry my wallet with IDs to the place, or better to leave it behind?

Should I remove valuables like a gold chain at home before going?

I’m not looking for anything extreme — just want to be safe, respectful, and avoid rookie mistakes. Any honest advice would be really appreciated.

Thanks in advance.

Posted Jan 31, 2026, 1:28 PM UTC

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