38 [M4F] - German Dom for his good behaving little girl - BDSM

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Do you know that feeling? Being stuck in a vanilla relationship but what you really crave is something completely different. This feeling of belonging to someone. To be owned. Having to serve and to be a good girl. Feeling desired. Attractive. Seen. By someone who knows to put you in your position. Who brings you to good use and makes your head spin. Who makes you feel like a girl again…

Because this is the kind of girl I am looking for. A girl who wants to experience the excitement of a D/s dynamic. Who craves to surrender herself and being controlled. To become a good behaving girl willing to serve and to please. Submitting her body to make her Dom happy. To make him proud. To enjoy the freedom which comes with being owned.

I have been into BDSM almost all my life. And once I experienced it, it was hard to go without. It adds a mental component to the physicality, which makes everything so much more intense. Bringing your sexuality to whole new level. It’s easy to have the body fucked. But having your mind fucked is a complete different thing. You will not get this feeling anywhere else.

I love the power exchange. Having full control of my sub. Controlling her mind and body. Teaching her how to become the girl I want her to be. Developing her into the girl she craves to be. Watching her grow.

But this is nothing which will happen in a day. It takes time. Communication. Trust and loyalty. So I need a girl who is able to open up. To talk about her needs and fantasies. To let me inside her head so I can understand how her mind works.

But to be clear, I will not be your new boyfriend. We will not be eye to eye. I have a relationship already. What I am looking for is a sub. My good behaving little girl. Which is doing what she is told and giving me what I want. While I am giving her what she needs. Being the one who shows her what it means to be owned. Who tells her what to do. What is expected of her.

To give you a first idea of who I am. I am 38yr german who has been in a committed relationship for 2 years now. I am 6 feet tall, love to work out and being out in the nature. I have a decent job which keeps me busy but I will always have time for my sub. I have a stern personality with values and principles. But I am also an open minded and funny person. When it comes to women I dont have a certain type. What I care about is her personality. Her level of devotion. Her desire to please. Her urge to submit.

If this made you interested, send me a message and we will take it from there.

Posted Jan 31, 2026, 1:28 PM UTC

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