When were you able to see/feel baby from the outside?

I’m a first time mom and 17 weeks today. I started feeling flutters/thumps around 14 weeks and they have gotten a lot stronger! I can definitely feel kicks now. I swear I just felt a few light pokes from the outside of my belly, but 17 weeks seems early for that so I’m doubting.

When were you or your partner able to feel?