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Men of reddit…I’m a post op stealth trans woman. I want to know how you would perceive me if I came out to you as trans? (please read the text below)

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I’m in my 20s, stealth, have lots of success on dating apps. However, I’m trans. I don’t disclose this on my profile, and I’m scared to date because I just hate people knowing I’m trans.

I’m totally convinced that once I tell a guy, he’ll suddenly not find me pretty and he’ll just see all my masculine features, OR he’ll still find me pretty but in like a trans girl way, and if we hook up he’ll see me as different than if I’d just told him I was cis.

So my question is, if a girl you were attracted to on a dating app told you this and she is post op, how would you feel? If you hooked up with her would it be the same as with any other woman or different?

Also I’m only interested in liberal men so if you’re right wing don’t bother replying.

Posted Feb 7, 2026, 10:56 PM UTC

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