Is it weird I don’t want to get laid or speak to women?

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I’m kinda weirded out that I’m a 21 year old dude that has a pretty nonexistent sex drive. I’m blessed to be very attractive and when I was younger I’d hook up with girls all the time. I was dating a girl for two years and broke up with her 9 months ago. The two of us were some certified freaks, having interesting sex pretty much daily.

I haven’t had sex or pursued a woman since that relationship. I don’t want another relationship and I don’t feel the need to hookup or date any women. My friends say I’m weird as fuck and question me when I ignore hot girls that approach me, the truth is i’m honestly getting increasingly annoyed when ANYONE of the opposite sex tries to speak to me (other than friends) and am worried I’m coming off as some egocentric incel when I’m really not.

Before I was in a relationship I loved to flirt and play around but now I just feel bothered. I have zero feelings for my ex and am 100% straight and porn free.

Am I gonna lose my libido and be some dead bed honey pack dude when I’m older? I’m scared I won’t get my enthusiasm back.

Posted Feb 7, 2026, 10:57 PM UTC

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