I just saw a post that made me consider some things

So.. I’ve been questioning my gender (again) and it just so happens that I came across a TikTok that said "I wish I could love girls in a wlw way and guys in a mlm t4t way." I'm on the aro spectrum, so basically I've never felt the urge to rush into dating anyone specific. And I saw this TikTok and I thought to myself, "Well, this makes sense, right?" And then I freaked out because like why does this make sense to me?!? I feel just like that and it’s scary. I was sure I was a lesbian because I only expressed attraction to girls... unless they're guys from the LGBTQ+ community... I felt something for them, non-binary, trans, genderqueer, etc... maybe? Does this make sense? Is it a weird preference that happens to be the same as the guy in the TikTok? or something else? Am I discriminating against anyone?