Before we start the Q&A we want to be clear on where we stand politically. We are very progressive and have zero tolerance for misogynists, racists, homophobes, xenophobes, and Trump supporters. If you are any of those do not waste your time messaging us. We do not want to associate with you. Save your negativity because if you send us any type of negative message we will block you. We are Mexican and proud of our heritage, our culture, and our people. We are POC and stand with our brothers & sisters. Life is political and the only people who don’t see it that way are people who are privileged enough to turn a blind eye when evil strikes.

Who’s That Girl? 💋

I am a chubby thick (5’4 tall & 200 pounds), and tatted Latina that’s happily married to my amazing husband. I would label myself as an extrovert. I love being out whether that’s with friends or alone. I like the going shopping, going out to new spots. but I also appreciate nature. I have a huge appreciation for the arts. I love going to concerts, art exhibits, and listening to all types of music. My favorite thing about myself are my titties.

What are you looking for?

I want to start out by saying I am not moved by your attractiveness. What I mean is attractiveness doesn’t mean anything to me. I don’t go around finding who’s hot and who’s not. If you are cool but it doesn’t do anything for me. My eyes are just on my husband. That being said you do have to look presentable and you must check off some things in order to be considered one of our swinging-partners. I will be listing below the requirements for both men and women.

Men

* Age: Between 30 and 50

* Have a vasectomy and proof of it

* Recent STI exam

* Race/Ethnicity: Latino/Hispanic, Black, and Asian (yes that includes India & the Middle East).

* Be able to host

* Body Type: Skinny, fit, ripped, chubby, dadbod, husky but not someone who is overly big.

* Prefer single men but open to men in relationships. Verification with your partner (when applicable) is required prior to anything happening.

Women

* Age: Between 24 and 40

* Recent STI exam

* Can host

* Race/Ethnicity: Latina/Hispanic, Black, and Asian (yes that includes Indian & the Middle East).

* Body Type: You have to have midsize to big titties. Open to skinny, fit, curvy, chubby, and bbws. No one that’s overly big.

* Prefer single women but open to women in relationships. Verification with your partner (when applicable) is required prior to anything happening.

How do I get your attention?

1. Have an active profile!! If your profile has no posts or comments pertaining to the lifestyle we will ignore your message. You have to treat your account like a dating profile.

2. When messaging us share information about yourself!! If all we see is “30M”, “Your wife is hot”, “I fit your description” then we will ignore you. Instead tell us your age, location, penis size, race/ethnicity, relationship status, a little about yourself and what caught your interest about us.

3. Do not message us “BBC here”, “I have a BWC”, “My dick is big”, “I want to fuck her”, or any type of message similar to that. That’s rude and all thats shows is that you’re an arrogant person. We don’t want to associate ourselves with people like that. If you want people who are into that kind of rude or humiliation talk stick to them don’t go around trying to force that on everyone. Not everyone is the same. Learn to communicate differently.

4. If we accept your message be ready to share a full body image of yourself clothed, a full body imagine of you naked, and a dick picture (not one of you sitting on the toilet that’s gross). You can blur out your face.

What is your size preference?

I prefer penises that are on the “smaller” side. My ideal size would be between 3 and 5 inches. I know that sounds hard to believe but it’s true. Not every woman is a size queen. Good sex isn’t based on penis size. That being said I don’t mind larger penises I welcome them as well as long as they aren’t too big because then that isn’t enjoyable for me.

Girth or Length?

I prioritize girth over length. I honestly don’t care about length. As I said above I prefer penises on the “smaller” side and if it’s one with some girth with a nice big tip then that sounds like a great time for me.

Favorite type of penis?

My favorite cock will always be my lovely husband’s. I am obsessed with it and love it. Now, what I prefer when we are looking for a swinging-partner and makes them jump ahead of the line is a tan/dark color, nice big tip, veiny, and having some girth. If you’re somewhere between 3-5 inches that’s a plus but as I said before I welcome all types of sizes as long as it’s not too big.

Do you meet up alone?

Never!! I always meet someone with my husband. We do this together. The only exception would be with a woman I have already had sex with before. Also we always let our friends know when and where we will meet up with someone. We advise you do the same. Taking all of this away and we’re left with strangers meeting strangers so it’s best to prioritize one’s safety.

What is a good sex time for you?

5 to 15 minutes. We are not looking for someone who lasts an hour. That becomes painful and boring. I want to have a good time not be waiting for someone to finally finish. If the sex is longer than 5-15 minutes that’s okay just not too long. We might go multiple rounds depending on how I feel so how long you last isn’t an issue. If you don’t last long don’t worry a good 5-10 minute session is perfect especially if we do multiple rounds.

Do you sell content?

No. We post and do this for fun. We have no desire to make this into something that brings in money.

Who is in charge of this profile?

This is a shared profile between my husband and I. He takes care of communication, finding people who fit what we are looking for, and structuring our profile. He is the person you will be communicating with if you message us. I get on to make my posts. But my husband tends to be the one who takes care of everything here. I am always in the loop of what’s going and occasionally get on myself to see if anyone that fits what we are looking has posted in the communities we are in. The only thing I don’t do is talk to people. Once we meet you in person and if things go well then a group chat can be made between all of us. But till then I keep my distance. I made the decision not to be the one communicating because I don’t want to put in all that effort just for someone to ghost us. It’s happened in the past multiple times and I’m over it. My husband doesn’t mind so he takes care of that.

Why are you only looking for men who have a vasectomy?

We want to be as safe as we possibly can. Plus my husband basically has a natural vasectomy himself lol He can’t get me pregnant. That’s perfect for us because we don’t want kids. It means raw fun sex for us without any fears or worries. Anyways given that we can have sex without any worries of a pregnancy why would we have sex with someone who could cause those worries? It wouldn’t make sense. That is why we are only comfortable with men with a vasectomy. On that topic we will still use condoms. That can change but only if we find a swinging-partner longterm and have gotten to the level of comfort where we are okay with me having raw sex with another man.

Are y’all interested in couples?

Yes we are!! But our couple play is a bit different from others. When it comes to couples I will not be engaging in a threesome with a couple. That’s off the table. I will either have a session with the woman where my husband and her man watches us, or have a session with her man where she and my husband just watch us. The other thing we would be interested in doing is parallel play with a couple. Parallel play is when two couples have sex in the same room, same car, same place basically but they do not swap. The sex is with their respective partner only.

Who’s That Guy? 🫶🏽

I am 25 year old Mexican man that is happily married to my gorgeous wife. I am 5’9 and chubby (about 200 pounds). I would label myself an introvert. I find joy in limited to no company. I keep to myself. If I don’t have a reason to talk to someone then I won’t engage in a conversation. I love being in spaces where I am not bothered easily by others. You can always find me with my headphones on when I’m out in public. To the surprise of many although I am not a people person I am very good at communicating with people and can keep a conversation lively as long as I’m interested of course. I don’t shy away from busy places either. I do like to be out and about. I enjoy going to the club with my wife and being out with her no matter the place. I have a big appreciation for nature. I grew up always wanting to stay outside and got sad when the sun went down because that meant I had to go inside. That appreciation has stayed the same. Checking out new parks, trails, or just areas out of the city is one of my hobbies. A nice walk out is always fun. My favorite thing about myself is my emotional control.

Do you want to have sex with other women?

No. At least not at this moment in time. I honestly can’t see myself in that position right now. My fantasies and kinks revolve around my wife. That’s what I’m interested in. I have no desire to be sexually active with another woman.

Are you interested in doing sexual things with men?

Yes. I am interested in that but only in a threesome scenario. It would only be me jerking off or giving a man a blowjob. I do not want to receive anything. I do not want to have sex with another man. I do not want to kiss another man. I do not want to be touched or communicated in an affectionate or sexual way by another man.

Are y’all only on Reddit?

At this time yes. We are considering joining SDC again because it enlarges the pool of potential swinging-partners. We are still skeptical of returning though for 2 reasons.

1. We experienced racism on there. If you are a POC that’s not surprising given that we can experience that anywhere at any moment. But it was unfortunate given that the lifestyle community is suppose be this open minded environment full of welcoming people.

2. There was a condescending environment. People often thought they knew better than us because they were older. They would go out of their way to tell us how we should do things. We would be questioned if we were serious or not. Like yes we were serious that’s why we were paying for the membership, had our profile set up, and were actively on there. It was just frustrating at times to deal with that.

Do y’all just communicate on Reddit?

No, we use signal and Snapchat as well. We prefer to move communication to either one of those platforms once we meet someone in person if all goes well.

Do y’all have an overall goal in this?

Yes we do. We want to find a swinging-partner or two that we can have fun with long term. Specifically men. Men that can take the wife on dates like going out to dinner or the mall then fuck, the wife going over to their house to get fucked, car play after work, and eventually us being comfortable with them having raw sex with the wife. But that will only happen after we really get to know a swinging-partner, they have a vasectomy, and we feel comfortable taking that step. Our rules might change over time with how comfortable we feel with someone but we will always stay the same. It will always be just us, my wife and I. She is all mine and I’m all hers. Our hearts just for each other. The best sex will always be our sex.

Thank you for reading through our Q&A. If you fit what we are looking for and what we said resonates with you, send us a message. In that message tell us your age, location, penis size, race/ethnicity, relationship status, a little about yourself and what caught your interest about us. Low effort messages will be ignored.

We are looking for people who have clear boundaries, are communicative, and open minded. Overall we want to create a space where everyone feels comfortable, appreciated, and respected. An environment that’s consent-forward where there is no pressure to do anything. We want communication to flourish between all of us, for trust to build up, and for there to be mutual enjoyment. We just want an easygoing fun experience that’s safe for everyone involved.