31 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Looking for a fellow aquaphile
I have an underwater kink and am lookingfor someone who’s into aquaphilia in any form, or curious enough to explore it. Ideally you enjoy swimming, intimate touching, underwater foreplay, light breathplay and drowning fantasy. Don’t want this to be full on sex. This is less of a casual hookup to me, and more of a way to explore and learn about myself, and maybe you too. I care a lot about consent and safety as I understand the potential danger of this kink. We’ll have a conversation regarding boundaries and safe words to. Want to make sure you’re comfortable and that this to be just as satisfying for you as it is for me.
A bit about me. I’m 6ft, mixed race, thin, and decent build. Best way you can describe me is tall, dark, and handsome. Very attentive, nerdy, detail oriented, empathetic, and kind. Not into drugs or smoking. I have no experience when it comes to intimacy, so this is a first time that I’m trying this, just try to be patient with me.
Some preferences:
• Have access to a pool or some large body of water (private is best)
• Swimsuits or minimal clothing. No nudity unless it naturally leads to that. Subtlety is more sexy to me. Call me old fashioned I guess.
• Women between 25 to 40. Share some pics if you dm.
• Orange County area strongly preferred
• Would like to get to know you a bit beforehand so be sure to tell me a bit about yourself. I think if we get along and have good chemistry, it will make the experience much better.
• If things naturally lead to a deeper relationship, then I’m open to it if it feels right for both of us.
Posted Feb 7, 2026, 11:04 PM UTC