35 [M4F] (UK) well here I am I guess...

Evening , it's hard to deny that it's demoralising that I'm here ona Saturday night but here's me.

My name's Matt, I'm a married father of 3 in the UK. I'm looking for that spark, you know what I mean; the one that makes you feel special, makes you smile, brings connection and encourages a level of intimacy that makes us both feel...ah. I'm not entirely sure this is even the right place for me but I'm here now so let's see.

I'm looking for somebody to chat with, to get to know, to make laugh, banter with and perhaps if we click then sure a bit of fun too. My intention is to find someone who I can give my attention to over the longer term, respect your privacy and boundaries and also to just come into this with no real expectations.

I am extremely open minded, I like a lot of different things varying from football to fantasy novels and would love to talk about my own and your interests. I'm hoping to find something for the long term, not a few messages or a ghosting after a week or so.

I'm not especially fussy around timezones, obviously I'm GMT but messaging across timezone can be nice. Age wise I think anybody 26-55 would be good to talk to.

What do you get from me? I'm honest, emotionally intelligent, I won't ghost you - if it's not working I'll tell you, I like a laugh and I'm easy going...I think I'm a nice guy, I've just got a dirty mind sometimes...and I'm married posting on a affair's sub so perhaps not the nicest.

Instead of sticking everything on a post hopefully you'll drop me a line and we can get to know one another.

Matt x