I’m genuinely curious, who has been the cheater, and got a divorced?

I’m genuinely curious who has cheated or if your spouse cheated did you or they stay with their person who they cheated with? Also how did that relationship go?

Now I’m asking this because I am genuinely curious I heard the relationships don’t last long. This is just me wanting to hear real life experiences, I wasn’t the cheater but however my ex husband was. His relationship with the person he cheated with failed and shortly after he hopped into another and been with her for a yr. I haven’t been in anything yet… also this is not me wishing bad on anyone either. I know that he has not processed anything of our divorce.

I want to hear real life experiences and no judgment here.