Roommate/friend put herself in a hole and instead of working to get out of it she tries to pick on me

WARNING - Gross

My friend/roommate's rent was raised, she can't afford to live alone anymore, she lost her job, and since I needed a place to stay I moved in and she agreed.

Now she's living from savings, she has tons of animals and she's in a place where she doesn't know what to do because an average salary won't let her afford this apartment anymore, she doesn't have anywhere to go because she has tons of animals, who are of course messy and tear the place down. She's unemployed, and won't get any random store job because it's not up to her standards.

The animals are messy, the apartment is a mess full of fur, dust. They pee everywhere, they tear apart things, sometimes they go number two where they shouldn't. And sometimes fight and are loud.

Instead of thinking of rehoming some of the animals, getting one or two jobs, downsizing, she's doing nothing to solve her problems. And I love her, but I warned her that I'm moving out in a couple of months because I don't have any job opportunities in this city anymore due to changes in the job market, and I'm currently surviving in a shit fast food job.

And instead of taking it as me warning her with time so she has a couple of months to get her shit together, get two jobs, find a smaller place, re-home animals idk, she's turned passive aggressive instead.

Now she's constantly trying to pick on me, p

Posted Feb 7, 2026, 11:09 PM UTC

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