AITA For not helping?
So, for context. My father has been mad at me for months about not having a job, not helping him do favors for other people (to make money on the side), and for several other smaller infractions, like not putting clothes up fast enough. The thing is, I never agreed to help him do those favors for other people, and even when I do help him, he's the only one who gets paid. I've never had a real job before, and have no college education, both of which makes getting a job nearly impossible. Even when he has money, he immediately spends it all on cigarettes and junk that he doesn't need. No matter what I do, it never seems to be enough. Another thing is that he'll get mad when I play my video games, but not only does he himself play a video game, but he also spends most of the day watching TV. Even when I had money, I ended up giving it all to him so that he could go on dates with *his* wife. Am I the one in the wrong here?
Posted Feb 11, 2026, 10:12 PM UTC