I’m after an experienced perspective on a scenario that I encountered with my girlfriend - is there swinger/hotwife potential here?

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I recently told my girlfriend of nearly 10 years that I fantasise about sharing her with other guys. MFM threesomes, blowbangs, gangbangs, FMF threesomes too.

Not in a degrading way, more in a mutually pleasure focused way. Like, I want her to have multiple orgasms, to be worshipped, for other men to get to enjoy what I enjoy about her sexually as she’s so beautiful and sexy and amazing in bed.

I told her while we were watching a pretty intense blowbang/bukkake porn video and, while she didn’t say she wanted to do it, she did engage in it. She seemed very engaged and turned on by how much the idea turned ME on. She asked me if that’s what I like and what I imagine her doing and I said yes, I love it, and I’d love to see her do it, and we even made each other cum while we were watching it and we had amazing sex again the following night.

How would you feel in this situation?

I’d never try to pressure her into doing these things but I would be SO thrilled if she were to get into at least fantasising about it and incorporating that kind of porn viewing and fantasising into our everyday sex life.

Posted Feb 11, 2026, 10:13 PM UTC

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