You're doing it wrong

Inspired by the recent increase in low-effort posts I've decided to do this sort of a tips-and-tricks for those wanna be doms to make the sub a bit more interesting.

First off, this is a trauma oriented kinky sub which means you gotta know how to handle trauma at least a bit. Sure, it comes in various shapes, sizes, colours and whatnots but the gist of it is at least similar.

So, contrary to popular belief, the special part of it all comes (in my experience, in a bigger part) from the non sexual aspects of the whole play. Once you're done with the sexual part you're supposed to make the sub feel good(or bad, depends, but mostly good) But the whole point of it isn't what you make her feel, it's that YOU make HER feel it.

Build a bond, help her create that connection. Be mean, then be kind. The point is to make a connection in her brain between the feeling of relief/freedom/other positive feelings (that are expressed through kink) and you. As in, you making them.

People don't like eachother automatically, you have to do something to make someone like you. Hurling insults or stroking your ego rarely gets the job done.

And also, clean up after yourselves!! This is kinda important and will help you with what I've mentioned earlier. When you're done, make sure they're okay! Ask them how they're feeling every now and then. Show some care, after all everyone is a person before all of this comes into play, let them know you're aware of it.

Try to incorporate this into your thirst posts, since you can't stop posting those. Give it a bit of flair, add some over the stop stuff for dramatic effect. Honestly, if you're not sounding at least a little bit either like a drag queen or some 14th century viscount of a random province in France, you're doing something wrong.

Make your posts interesting to read dammit