Should i post my boyfriend’s baby mother’s mug shot?

Am I the a**hole for posting my boyfriend’s son’s mother mugshot on social media? I’ve known my now boyfriend for about 15 years. I am now 29 female, he’s 31 y/o male. I have always looked at him as a friend, but he tells me we were never friends because he’s always liked me. We didn’t start dating until February of 2024. We both have a son, same age (5), his son is about two months older than mine. After a month of us dating, I asked him about his son. Where was he? We were practically living together so I wanted to know. He reached out to his child mother a few times while I was present, so that I could see their relationship dynamic. Since they had broken up, she would not let him see the kid unless he came over to her house to see him. My boyfriend was signed into Instagram on his sons iPad which lead to the mother of his kid, sending harassing messages to me VIA dms. That is how she found out we were dating. One day, he told her that he would finally come over to see the kid. When that weekend approached, she started an argument. From then on it’s just been excuse after excuse as to why he can’t see the kid. I told him that she was homeless. This would be her 3rd eviction. I was right. He popped up at her last known address and knocked on the door. A neighbor came out and said that she had gotten evicted months ago. So the whole time that she was calling, harassing, begging for money, she did not even have the child in her care. Her mother finally called and spilled the beans and said not to give her money for the baby, because the child has been with the grandmother and uncle for months. When he would give her money, she would go out to eat with her boyfriend. Since then, it has been pure hell. She set up grindr accounts with his photos on them, scheduled dates and sent them to my house. There were gay males on my door multiple times between the hours of 3-5AM. I called the police they said that it was nothing they would do be cause the dates were coming with the intentions to date, not harm me. I don’t have company often so whenever there’s a knock on my door I’m confused on who it could be. One day, my autistic 4 year old son at the time, opened the door for DCF & 5 police officers. I was naked with the shower running about to wash. She had called and said that we were on drugs etc which lead to us having to take three drugs test two weeks apart each. She’s posted an old mugshot of me on Facebook, and said plenty of other things I won’t repeat. She’s came to house and broken a

My windshield on my Mercedes. Some time after coming to my house she drove two hours away to fight her then boyfriend’s child’s mother as well. For that, the charge went from an assault to burglary/ home invasion. Am I the asshole for posting her mugshot which is by far more terrifying than mine?