Is my indian friend jealous/projecting or just a mean girl?…
So I’ve been friends with this girl since I was 15, we fell out for 6 years because she told me being insecure about my looks is embarrassing so I cut her off! Recently she reached back out.
She seemed to be good energy so we met up for coffee then for a dinner, I opened up about how tough heartbreak has been for me recently, I’m really insecure and feel super unworthy after a guy dumped me!
She seemed so supportive and so I explained I even took my WhatsApp profile picture down because I felt so hideous. Yesterday after 2 months of heartbreak I took a new selfie! Nothing phenomenal but I think I look really sweet in it I told her how I’m a little upset that the new profile pic didnt make him reach out and she replied “well it’s not as glam as I had pictured,more lip liner and a smoky eye! You need a glam pic and also a picture is incomplete without cleavage. “
Now I’m a 30FF with a 24inch waist, body is one thing I GOT and so I rarely flaunt it especially online. But she kept emphasising this, by the end of the phonecall I felt so crap about myself and I asked her if should take it down and she said “Yes let’s get something more wow”
Sorry what the actual hell is wrong with her, I’m so taken aback!
We’re 25 & 26 and she’s Indian but very fair and so for years lied to me pretending to be a biracial black woman.
Posted Feb 11, 2026, 10:22 PM UTC