Thoughts???
Okay so I’m staying with someone who was an acquaintance with. But, curious what you would do in this situation. I had a nde in fall and they let me stay here to heal but I agreed to help around the house and also offered money. They’re gadje. Anyways they keep saying I’m gadje dismissing me being Romani. Make comments about comparing gadje being gunned down to holocaust and when I speak up they dismiss me and now they call me their house servant. I’m preparing my exit already and I’m biting my tongue I’m not in a position to leave yet I can’t but I’m not going to stay in this. But how would you take this? I immediately spoke up and said they can call me a nanny or babysitter I help cook clean do laundry etc but this person doesn’t take care of anything. Neglecting their role as a parent list goes on. I feel extremely protective over what I’ve seen with the children.
How would you handle this?
They also make comments about Indian people joking etc. their partner is currently locked up but kalo and they’re white.
Just need to vent on this. It’s hitting a deep ancestral wound for obvious reasons I’m already working to the next step but how would you handle this situation
Posted Feb 11, 2026, 10:26 PM UTC