Should I reach out again or just let it be?
Hey everyone, I could use some outside perspective.
I (18M) was talking to a guy from my school for a while. We used to FaceTime and talk pretty consistently. There was one moment on a call where he got a little annoyed at something I dia, but the call actually ended on a good note and we were fine after that.
Not long after, he deleted his social media accounts and kind of went quiet. I texted him once just to reach out, but I didn't double text or push. It's been about 3 weeks now. We've seen each other in the hallway at school, we made eye contact, but neither of us said anything.
There wasn't a fight. Nothing dramatic happened. It just kind of... paused.
Part of me wants to text again eventually just to see where things stand. Another part of me thinks I should leave it alone and not chase someone who isn't reaching out.
Posted Feb 11, 2026, 10:27 PM UTC