getting so close!!

I have found a setup where it stays snug without a strap (1), and with a strap (2).

my issue w 1:

can’t wear long periods of time, I don’t believe it’s ball gap, though. i almost feel like the dryness of the friction between my skin and the ring is causing problems? it’s giving me like friction burns and stuff

my issue w 2:

can’t do multi days, strap causes chafing

I’m fine with my problem with #2 but I’m wondering if anybody knows about a solution to #1?