How do you meet friends into the same music as you to go to shows/concerts?

I just realized this is something I’m not good at when it comes to music interests. I been able to meet friends in other activities, similar interests/hobbies, and shared values. But music was one I always struggled with. It would be so cool to go to music shows with friends that also enjoy similar or the same music as me and jam out.

However I don’t know how to do that and the suggestions I see people recommend is just randomly striking up conversations at music show… that is hard for me for multiple reasons. One due to social anxiety and it not being in a structured setting to socialize. Plus I have a hard time talking to my spouse when we go together and often have to text because we just can’t hear each other. The last person I talked to at a music show I could barely hear her unfortunately and was missing what she was saying due to music. I’m wondering if there’s other places to meet people into the same music and then going together. Has anyone had success with this and what has helped? Thank you.