Struggling intimacy

Sex and dating

Lately I’ve been having some trouble of intimacy with my gf im a very high libido person and she isn’t so much so that was a problem for a long time being that i felt unsatisfied and well were in a ldr so its kinda hard to fulfill that area anyway so that’s not much of a concern anymore although i still think it probably is a cause for the next issue, im bad at sex now… I didn’t use to be before but it’s like ive lost my creativity and idk what to do because she doesn’t like a lot of the things i think of and now what i do seems rutinary because it’s what I know she likes and its safe to do but i just don’t feel good about it i feels boring and quick when we used to last for whole nights… idk what to do if anyone has any advice it would be very much appreciated

Posted Feb 14, 2026, 7:53 AM UTC

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