Are there older men out there like this?

Hi all, so I (19F) am a virgin and a Christian who’s waiting until marriage. With most guys my age it seems to be a problem that I’m not wanting to have sex until then and I’ve been called a tease amongst a lot of other things.

My preferences for men lean towards someone who looks traditionally masculine but is honestly on the subservient side (I don’t have any interest in dominant men) and I know that older men tend to like taking the lead but I have no interest in that.

If there’s an age range that would be most open to that sort of dynamic what would it be? I know that millennials are a bit more liberal when it comes to relationships but I’m not 100% sure