whats going on?

me and my coworker are both male.

the first time we worked together, he asked normal questions, like if i had a girlfriend, then if i had a boyfriend.

on our second shift, about a month later, he asked again if i had a girlfriend or boyfriend. he also asked about my music taste and beliefs in god. i thought he was just curious and being friendly.

on our latest shift, he asked a third time if i was talking to any girl, girls, or maybe “a boy.” when i reminded him he’d already asked, he pretended not to remember and then said, “oh right, yeah, i remember, i just thought i’d ask again in case it changed.”

he’s also made inappropriate jokes when it’s just the two of us.

he recently said, “(my name) is unfortunately taken by somebody, not by me tho!” i’m confused because i’m single and i have no idea why he added “not by me” out of nowhere.

another time, he came up to me and said i wouldn’t handle being pregnant. my coworkers were talking about pregnancy, but it still made me feel weird.

the last time we sat down with two other coworkers, he said, “hey, did i tell y’all? i found a boy i like, i want to take him on a date, but i don’t know who should make the first move.” the other two coworkers laughed because they knew he was joking (he’s straight), but i still felt uncomfortable and weirded out.

sorry for the yapping 😭😭💀

edit:

when he said the boy first move thing another colluage said “is it (my name)?” In a non serious way

he said “ nahhh he isnt really my type”

then they started talking about men being with men and women being w women but it was not a hostile conversation then he turned to me and asked what i think, he then got a little mad n said “are u even listening?”