39 [F4M] #Europe #Netherlands – Looking for a Dominant Daddy

I am a 39 year old woman looking for a dominant, unattached man for an ongoing dynamic. You should be around my age or older. If your age starts with a 1 or a 2, then we are not a match and it is best not to message me.

I am only interested in unattached men. This means that I will only accept men who are not in a relationship, not married or not currently in a dynamic. This is a deal breaker for me.

I am open to semi long distance if there is a real connection and the possibility of meeting in real life often, but I prefer someone based in the Netherlands or a nearby country. I am looking for someone who has had a long time desire for this kind of dynamic and knows it is something he truly wants, not someone simply exploring it to “spice things up.”

To be clear, I am not looking to be a third, a secret, or an extra in someone else's dynamic. I want something that is mine. Something honest, intentional and real.

If you understand the difference between dominance and control, value meaningful connection over casual encounters and are unattached, I would like to hear from you.

I know what I am drawn to and what makes me feel deeply connected. Desire is important to me, and so is how it shows up between two people. I am turned on by being wanted, truly wanted, by a man who can make me laugh, think and ache.

I am drawn to obedience, discipline, intelligence, sensation play, anal training, orgasm control and denial and spanking.

Please introduce yourself properly if you choose to message me. This means tell me your age, location, maybe include a SFW photo, include the word spanking in the first line so I know you actually read this, tell me about your experience, your interests, ask questions…

Do not send me AI generated messages, AI edited messages (yes, I can tell), one line messages and copy & paste messages. Do not message me with only “hi,” and do not approach me as if a dynamic already exists or address me as your submissive before we have spoken and agreed on anything.

If the ad is still up, it means I’m still searching.