AITAH for making a big deal out of this?

I was watching a basketball game today with my friend for reference were seniors in highschool and I’m a black man she’s a white women and they sang the pledge of allegiance. She told me to stand up I said no I’m not standing up as a black man and when it started I went on my phone and she snatched my phone out of my hand and handed it back to me after. I played it cool she whole night but this really irritated me and I wanna make a big deal about this, aitah?