Am I being too careful?

I'm a massage therapist who became a straight male escort. I recently started offering FS to my erotic massage clients.

My return client is gently pushing my boundaries in regards to gloves and oral and where I finish.

I'm super safe with protection. I use gloves for yoni massage, condoms of course and it doesn't come off ever, dental dam for oral on her. Basically trying to minimise fluid exchange as much as possible.

As massage is my main source of income, I'm very protective of my hands, so I've always used gloves in the rare case of contracting HSV through the fingers.

She also questions me wearing gloves because she squirts quite a bit and I'm basically covered in bodily fluids after a massage.

I also make everyone get a sti test as a prerequisite.

She also said she thought after the sti screening, we'd have a lot more natural freedom besides the condom for vaginal penetration.

I am firm in holding the boundaries, but I've been wondering, am I being too careful?

Not sure if it's relevant, but I would consider myself high class, especially for a male in my area. Maybe I feel guilt that she's paid thousands and I'm such a goody two shoes.

Thank you for reading. I appreciate your thoughts 🖤