I’m trying to put myself out there more and meet women in a natural way. What’s worked for you on campus?”I go to Michigan State University

What’s a good way for me to meet woman in college? I am a shopmore at Michigan state university. Have had some woman even approach me at the bars but they never reply back or follow me back.

I approach decent amount of woman I probably should approach even more but I always been shy. Tho most of the time I feel like it never ever goes anywhere so that’s why I never ever did try much. I have had a lot of people call me handsome, gorgeous though not even trying to be weird. Older men and woman and even had a 40 year old woman ask me for my number one time and 30 year old woman follow me with her car to try to hit on me but I never got the hint till later cause I was 20 years old.

Sometimes tho when I approach the woman in my college bars they don’t mess with me or some do and don’t answer it depends like I said some have even approached me.

I am still new to this college and sometime just haunts me that I am 22 years old only been in 1 relationship ever and haven’t gotten laid yet.

Should I approach more woman on campus and not the bar since the bar I feel like most of the girls are caught up with drinks or a drink vs campus you can catch them walking sitting somewhere etc.

Posted Feb 14, 2026, 8:05 AM UTC

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