Are any “sub looking for domme” posts actually real?

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Genuine question. I feel like I see so many of these but they’re so often clearly time wasters or scammers so I don’t often interact, but there have been a few I’ve seen that looked legit and like a sub that would be the a good fit. So I guess my question is subs, do you ever want to make a post like this but are afraid to because you’re worried you’ll sound bait-y?

I feel like the onus is usually on subs to lurk and research and approach the dommes they think suit them, but I kinda feel like subs should be able to advertise too if they want to? Idk, just curious about your thoughts.

Posted Feb 14, 2026, 8:07 AM UTC

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