ABYG nakipagbreak dahil sa valentine’s

We’re LDR (3 months dating). I (29F) communicated to him (31M) many times na i value events and valentine’s day. I even asked him directly what he’s getting me for valentine’s. I got nothing. He has my address naman. Earlier today, I asked him again. He brushed it off and told me he’s giving his cat as a gift.

After that video call, I texted him that i’m breaking things off since we obviously don’t speak the same love language given that I already communicated my expectations and he can’t meet them. Also told him that I dont want him to change himself for me and that he’ll find someone who will love him for him. He told me he can’t just mail things quickly (LOL he had whole january and feb), and that he greeted me and is composing a letter. I told him I don’t care about what-if’s and plans, as I care more about actions and the present.

ABYG? It’s just that I already live a good life. I am highly educated, well-traveled, and have a good career. I don’t want to settle kasi I know what I want. A relationship is not something to complete me, rather, it should add positive value to my being. If a guy can’t give effort on once a year occasions, it translates to how much effort they’ll give sa relationship long term.