I want to move out of state...but don't know where to start

For some background, I am 29 years old and never lived outside of Little Rock. NEVER. As my 30th birthday is approaching I am realizing that my life is passing me by and I am not living it to the fullest.

With that being said, I really want to move out of state and experience new things in life. I want to experience living in a "big" city...... but I'm not sure where to go?

Yes, some of my indecisiveness comes from being slightly afraid to tryy new things and live in a new place.... but another reason I am a little hesitant is because my entire family/support system lives in Little Rock.

If anyone has any tips for how I should navigate this that would be extremely helpful!!!