34 [F4M] Online. Trying again and hoping this is the last time.

Hi, I just turned 34 and though I have no problem spending time with me, I was craving someone to share it with.

I've made posts here in the past and none was fruitful I guess. I did make some nice connections that couldn't work out due to wanting different things. So I'm trying again.

About me

I'm Ghanaian and yes, I live in Ghana.

I'm not religious and that means I don't subscribe to any religion or their beliefs and teachings. If anything at all, I think this will be my deal breaker. I don't believe in child indoctrination and don't want it in my future home.

I have no children and would want them in future alongside marriage.

I'm 5'5 (I found that out recently and imagine my surprise thinking I was 5'3 for a long time 😁). I love movies and shows and spending time in nature. I like simple things and I've gotten to the point where all I crave for is calmness and kindness. I'm self aware and can communicate so I expect that from people I relate with.

About you

Between the ages of 33 to 50yrs. Hopefully has no children but if you have one who's left home, that'll be okay. Wants children and is equally not religious in the same way I'm not. Wants the same things I want too. It'll be nice if you're not a drunk. You can communicate no matter how hard it is. Self aware

I don't expect perfection. I just want someone who tries to be better. I'm on reddit simply to find a man who's not religious. There's few of those around me and I rarely meet them.

I'd like to add that I hope you've healed from whatever trauma you have or is in the process. It takes a lot to get to the 'I've made progress' phase. We won't work out if dark humor is replacing healing in your life.

If you're interested, send me a message telling me about you. Please, I won't respond to just hey. Tell me something about you. The basics will be okay.

Chat soon!