34 [M4F] Looking for a sweet, consistent, and kinky partner

Hey there, thanks for stopping to read my post. I am hoping to find long term partner or consistent fwb who is kinky, sweet, and possibly into nerdy stuff like gaming. I have done some exploring kink wise, so I have experience. There is more I want to explore with the right person. I would really like it if I could find someone friendly and open minded to explore with me.

Ideally I hope to find a person who considers themselves a sub, but I am open to a switch. I am NOT interested in a dom/domme. I have been wanting to find someone that is into, or curious about the following kinks. Breast play/worship, nipple play, petplay, lactation/adult nursing, ddlg, teasing/edging, degradation/humiliation, cum play, bondage. If you are into role play/cosplay/dress up that would be amazing. It would be so much fun to do some shopping together for kinky little outfits for you and then dress you up :) (I hope you like collars, skimpy clothing, and high heels because I'll probably get you some outfits). There is more I am interested in, but we can discuss it privately. Please let me know about any kinks you might want to explore as well.

I would say I tend to fall into the soft dom/caregiver role. I love taking care of my partner, being intimate, and close with my partner. In general I love providing aftercare, kissing, cuddling for hours, and giving praise. So I hope you like head pats and forehead kisses haha. Mutual attraction is important to me, so I would like to exchange photos SFW earlier in our chat to establish that. I don't want to waste either of our time.

Here is some info about me:

• Me: 34yo, tall (6’1”), ~170lbs (in decent shape), black, cis-male, short black hair, and beard. I am college educated and I work as a software engineer. I live on my own near downtown, so I am able to host. I got rid of my car a while ago when I switched to working remote, so I don't drive anymore. I am able to travel within the city depending on how close you are to downtown. My non kinky interest are mostly video games and computer stuff (building/fixing/programing). Some of my favorite games are Zelda:WW (anything Zelda really but botw/totk was amazing), Transistor, and Fallout 3/NV. When I’m not up to playing games/working on computers, I am usually streaming something to watch, or learning some new programming skill. My favorite TV Shows Community and PnR, but I tend to watch a lot of stuff. I am mostly an indoors person, but I am open to hiking day or a beach outing when the weather is nice. I love to travel when I can. My favorite travel destination I have been to is Japan and I miss it there so much.

• You: cis-female, around my age but younger than myself is preferred, local to the greater Seattle area, single, open to a fwb situation or a relationship if we click, child free, submissive (as I said I am open to a switch, but NOT a dom/domme), and willing to exchange SFW pictures/video chat before meeting. I have a preference for Asian and White women, but it's not a deal-breaker. I would be absolutely thrilled if we have some common interest. If you are into video games, anime, or other pop culture stuff we will get along great. Being able to connect beyond just kinky stuff would be really nice. Also please be DDF. I am and I expect my partner to be as well. If you drink or smoke weed that is fine. If you smoke cigarettes that is deal breaker for me.

If you are interested and live in the greater Seattle message please send me a chat message. I am NOT looking for anything online only. I don't want a pen pal so please don't message me for online play. If you are not open to getting coffee or something as vibe check after exchanging pictures and talking and for a bit then we aren't going to work out. If this is still up I’m probably still looking. Thanks for reading.