Mid 40s couple new in cuckoolding lifestyle

So we are mid 40s couple , so first wanna know isn't it's weird or embrassing age, are people do fun in this age or not.

Second how to find genuine third guy or cpl as we concern things should be discreet.

And last we had some fun that includes fun like holi etc. Exhibition, clubbing, roleplays.

Now thinking to step forward

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