Valentine’s Day.. am i overreacting?

I 31F have been dating a 33M for 5 months.. Christmas time he didn’t do any gifts or really celebrate. I had a conversation with him about how I am a celebrate everything kinda of girl. I love to celebrate.. big small I am celebrating.. he made it up to me by getting me a gift I

Really wanted.. when Valentine’s Day was coming I told him several times I wanted him to ask me to be his valentine and sent him a bunch of “joking memes” about Valentine’s Day. He doesn’t plan anything and then the day before asks me to get lunch with me.. we get lunch and he doesn’t bring flowers, or chocolate or a card NOTHING. I tried to ask him if he got me anything and he said I have too many expectations for him..I feel like there is no point to keep explaining myself and am Ready to break it off even though he’s a really nice guy.. am I overreacting or do I have to high of expectations?