My grandma is a covert narcissist

she has been putting me through hell for years. she's refused for years to call me pretty. I remember she called me ugly in front of my mom and my mom started crying. rip mom . this woman is evil and people who are real know it that have seen what she's really like. today on the phone she told me "you get upset when people call other people pretty. there are a lot of pretty people..." I thought this was awful of her, but you all can put your opinion below..I don't get upset about that btw anymore maybe in my early twenties but not at 32 I've accepted I'm ugly. especially to her ..it breaks my heart that I have a grandmother that is so destructive and Ive told her so many times I love her over the years, she never says it back ....