New Friend/ Circle/ Group?

32m. New to Phx with zero ties here and trying to find a new friend group. I figured it was worth a shot to go outside the box (for me) and see suggestions on here. My main concern would be that I don’t fit the mold of clean-cut or straight-edge and I also don’t want strictly surface level plug-type relationships. How TF do ppl in their 30’s start from scratch meeting people…. Specifically “your” people