My wife has no libido so I sext and chat with men and women.

My wife and I got together young and neither of us had a lot of partners before each other. We had a decent sex life for a while, but in the last year or two especially she’s been completely cold and sexually just checked out. I understood for a while, and gave her space and time so as not to put pressure on her to feel like she had to do anything she didn’t want to.

But as time went on it became obvious that she was basically viewing this as tacit acceptance on my part and has only gotten more distant physically. So I found an outlet. It started with just chat and role play with strangers online. I got an outlet to share fantasies without the guilt of it being “really” cheating.

Then things escalated and I found myself wanting more thrill and connection. So I started sending and soliciting nudes from guys, girls and everything in between, as I’ve always been heteroflexible/bicurious. The responses I have gotten have been such a thrill. People telling me I have a perfect dick they’d love to worship. Praise and validation, having people get off just from flirty and dirty chats from me. Even one much younger woman who sends me pics of her doing things to herself my wife would never dream of doing let alone enjoying.

The guys are on a different level. They love telling me how they’d worship me, be my eager little fuck toys. Promising they’d suck the life out of me, they their asses would milk me dry. I like knowing that for every time she says no there’s an endless amount of people out there saying yes to me. Maybe it’s petty but it’s also empowering.