Want to get started with lighting for my band

I have a set of these

https://a.co/d/0ivKOB3j and a set of these https://a.co/d/08ukqvli and I’d like to get them incorporated into my band’s performances, ideally with some correlation to the music.

Is this possible with these lights and if so, what kind of software would I use?

If it’s not possible with these, does anyone have a recommendation about how to get started? Many thanks.