Dancing and outside of dancing. Questions about traveling.

Do you guys know any clubs that take travel dancers on top of also being SAFE and prioritizing safety. That’s the most important to me. Also just advice about making traveling cheaper. I’d love to go travel the US alone and I feel like this job would give me that opportunity but I don’t know if doing this in my own vehicle and staying at hotels is cheaper along the way. or taking a flight and just using a rental/uber once I get there. I’d like to take my cat along with me so… also how do you guys stay safe in general while traveling. I always notice between the hours 12am-6am I can’t go out in public, everytime I step into a gas station or something I get looked at like a piece of meat or men even try to chat with me. I remember I was getting McDonalds for breakfast before I had to go to work, this was at 5am (old job) and a table of 3 old men were staring at me specifically my waist area and tried to talk with me while I was walking in to order. Wanted to eat inside but that got ruined really quick, I’ve noticed more creeps at early morning than late at night weirdly enough... this is quickly turning into a rant but it’s annoying having to constantly worry about my safety. I wouldn’t even consider myself drop dead gorgeous but I have men approaching me constantly. I purposefully avoid wearing makeup and dressing up when I go out because when I do that it gets worse. I’d totally drive the entire way if I were to travel somewhere. me and my ex bf did it and we’d just take bathroom stops and drive the entire time, no hotel stops. But I don’t feel like I can do that being a woman and being alone. and I just fear for my safety in general traveling outside of dancing. I’ve also wanted to take phlebotomy courses so I can also do that and travel but I have the same issue where I don’t know how safe that is. I also see girls getting dance partners or asking for them online but once again NOT SAFE. 💔 but also being alone isn’t safe either. this sucks 😂 it may just be my anxiety but I see girls with the same struggles all the time 😞. Wish I was a dude lmfao. If anyone has any tips for staying safe, prioritizing saving money when traveling, and just overall advice that’d be great. I hope this didn’t sound pick me I’m just genuinely concerned for my safety. I’m sure they’re also approaching me just due to the fact I look young/naive.