AITAH for being annoyed at my husband for watching adult content?

So for context we had a baby in November 2025. We got married in February 2025. Throughout most of my pregnancy I (25F) was seeking affection from my husband through intimacy, and I have a much higher drive than my husband (30M). After my pregnancy, we couldn’t have sex for a few weeks due to healing from surgery, fair enough! But when I could finally have sex, he would decline. Which is fine, I have a very high drive. But recently I’ve found out that he’s been watching “adult content” either when I’ve just left our room, or I’m dropping our 6 year old off at school (takes 30 mins). AITA for feeling rejected and a second option? He never initiates sex, it’s always me. But now I don’t even want it anymore, he can handle it himself if he wants any action. We average on once every couple of weeks. I feel like an asshole for even thinking like this, but I am postpartum and really struggling with my body image as it is.

Posted Feb 15, 2026, 8:29 PM UTC

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