Should I start a GFM for my dad

Hello all,

My dad was diagnosed brain cancer and he was the only one working for years. I have 2 small siblings in school and my mom is his main care giver as he goes for chemo radiation treatment every single day. They need financial assistance with rent and food. But I’m wish to send him and my mom to Umrah soon because he has a prognosis. I can’t afford to pay for the expenses because I have two small children, am a student, and my husband is in a lot of personal debt. should I start a secrete GoFundMe for him to cover their Umrah expenses? He’s a very private and “manly” person, I know he’ll be very upset when he realizes for finds out people made Sadaqah for him. It would break him mentally. What should I do? Also can I start an anonymous GFM without showing his face? Please make duah for him and our family.