Does he like me more than just s3x and possibly want to date me?

me and this guy have been seeing each other for nearly a month now. it started w snapchat(i know i know.) and we talked for a day or 2 before hanging out as we live on the same campus. we watched a movie and had sex. he texted me after saying he had a great time. i did too. i wanted to see him again and he expressed he also wanted to see me again. after that day, he would text me saying how much he can’t stop thinking about me and it’s distracting him from school blah blah. we continued to hangout every now and then. talking for hours laughing, having sex, watching movies. we would sometimes go for long walks around the park at night and just talk and smoke some weed. it’s been nice. we talk pretty much all the time and are constantly texting from the time we wake up till we fall asleep. i’m starting to really really like him. i enjoy his company a lot. he’s a really nice guy but i mean you can’t really tell a lot of how serious he is abt you when your main hangout spot is his bedroom. about a little over a week ago, i got random songs sent to me from him. it was “can’t take my eyes off you” and “bless the telephone”. two love songs. he follows up w “good songs” like it’s so casual. i didn’t read too much into it till it started to continue a little. when he sent a song titled “fooled around and fell in love” i got a little curious thinking maybe he wants more than what we have rn. which i would absolutely not be opposed to. a couple days after that he sent another song. “i’m not in love” by 10cc but follows up w “i only really listen to the sound of the song not the lyrics” so he was basically reassuring me this song wasn’t representing his feelings. confused me for sure after he sent about 8 other love songs. i thought maybe valentine’s day would be a perfect day for him to confess if this is what he was truly feeling but we did our usual hangout. we went for a drive, listened to some music(which some love songs played btw) and then smoked and i stayed over. but i’m still not sure if he wants more!!!! i’m hesitant to ask as he leaves back home in march and then i graduate in april when he’s back. so the timing isn’t great and the relationship would be long distance for a lot of the beginning of it. that’s why i was maybe thinking he hasn’t said anything, but i’m not sure. if anyone has any advice, please let me know. this is eating at me a little!

Posted Feb 15, 2026, 8:39 PM UTC

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