28 [F4M] #SF/CA/USA Whimsical Nerdy guy looking for somebody who likes Whimsical Nerdy guys :D

Ahoy! Thank you for clicking on this post! Usually my style when riding in general is usually off the walls or pretty much what I'm thinking of at the moment, but please I promise to at least make it a little bit interesting, so bare with me.

So generally I'm a 5'4 guy residing in the San Francisco area, yep plenty of bay, plenty of beaches, plenty of ocean and plus just a lot of cool places to hike to and it still feels like I haven't found enough. Always out to go find adventure in some way with friends, whether it be going on a sailing club, or sword fighting club in the park or just even rock climbing gyms, yes and if you combine all of those skills in each of those things I could probably become a good ass resume for becoming a pirate. Other more indoor activities usually are binging some sort of movie, series or animation, playing board games and tabletop rpg games <3 (it's so long since I had a session), plus playing video games but usually tends to be coop or some type of multiplayer game (really just want to share the experience with others). I have a cat who has a heart of gold and an affection of a clingy baby, but clearly has no thoughts in his mind.

Surely there is plenty more information about me, but I rather not take too much up of your time. So thou may ask what am I looking for? Pretty much a slow burn relationship that starts out as friends and getting to have a partner in life. Life is hard and there's a lot of bullshit in our everyday lives, so it's pretty much better to cheer each other up through those rough waves and just have your back! I really want to spend my life and experience with a partner in the future, whether it's going abroad, cool things that we share to each other and going out on dates that has the 50-50 chance toss of going so badly that we laugh about it late days later to just enjoying the time and being all sweet like! Yet, if I got to be purely honest I just miss that warmth of having someone there to speak what goes on my mind and hear about theirs too!

All right last stretch, time to put some possible deal breakers!:

- I can't have kids, sorry but always down to be one of those cool uncles that takes them out on adventures and spoils them! :D

- I'm a hopeless romantic, yep I'm an emotional guy who loves the sweetest things in life. I literally cried when my friend gave me a plushie as a present. Plus love hugs and cuddles.

- I put the A in Autism. Yeah I'm neurodivergent, which I'm pretty good at hiding it well until you get to know me better. So if you feel like I'm not reading the room right, please let me know because I rather not find out waking up at 3 a.m. realizing "oh sh*t... That's what was going on..." And feeling dumb afterwards.

- Please have interest an interest in a hobby that we both share. I really just want to share experiences together on something that we both like and do!

- I love the chat! And I find it very electric when I can have discussions that just goes back and forth with! So could be just about anything, deep discussions, a dumb dream and etc.

- Please be in the US. In a stable global political climate I would have said otherwise and would love to travel abroad learn new language and build up on my French and German, but with how things are going as of now it's getting tense, potential stupid wars being casted and being detained for a security check under "New National Safety concerns" is something I do not want on my 2026 New Year's resolution. T~T I really want these 3 years to pass quickly.

- Finally please be 21+

Still here? Didn't scare you off? Great! I would love to receive a DM from ya! Please tell me about yourself, and answer this icebreaker question which as follows:

"What is your most recent hyperfixation? Is it an object, is it a show, it is a reoccurring thought?" Yap about it as much as you want I love hearing stories and talk about them with ya! Hope you have a good Sunday and a one day late Valentine's Day! :D